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Gerry Hebert's avatar

I’m 68 and I pretend to be going through midlife crisis often…because, well it’s just feels good to go back there and think about the stuff I didn’t have to worry about! 😂. Don’t just think about getting a dog, do it! I visited your zine page! Love it…wish I could adequately put into words how inspiring it is to have you share your work with us all the time. Thanks Austin! 👍🏻

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Petya K. Grady's avatar

I am 42, about to turn 43 and also going through it right now. It's been tough. One thing that has been making me feel a little crazy but also has given me tremendous amounts of comfort is writing letters to myself, to and from different ages. So, earlier this week I wrote a letter from my 42 year old self to my 32 year old self to apologize that I didn't trust her enough to complete the book she started writing. But I also wanted to tell her that 42 year old me fucking finished the book she started and I felt so grateful for all the research she had done at the time. It felt like such a beautiful reunion to have this conversation. Maybe you can ask your future 80 year old to write a letter to current age you and give you some advice on how to live right now when it feels difficult? I bet he will have good things to say. Hang in there. ❤️

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