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Mary Anne Shew's avatar

I don't read them every week, but I do love a well-written obituary. I've collected some wonderful ones as inspiration for the draft obits I've prepared for my husband and me. (We don't have much family left to take care of such things after we're gone, so we're doing this stuff ourselves.) The best obits manage to convey the personality and interests of the deceased and even have a bit of humor in them. We'll probably have a short one published in our local paper (if it's still operating) and the full version on the funeral home's website (it's part of their service).

A useful book: "Yours Truly: An Obituary Writer's Guide to Telling Your Story" by James R. Haggerty. https://a.co/d/6j454bB

Lastly, this reminds me of the adage that was still followed when I was a girl but has thankfully died off in recent decades: The only times a woman was to have her name in the paper were when she was born, got married, or died. I miss the wedding announcements complete with bridal party names, description of the wedding gown, and the honeymoon destination.

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Carrie H's avatar

Congratulations on the new book!

And thanks for this newsletter. It's one I read every week. Sometimes I end up with a bunch of things to read and others not so much. Today's nugget for me was the Jessa Crispin quote. I love any little act of rebellion, and all the more so when it includes reading.

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